While I may not be the most patient person ever, it is up to me how I tolerate my surroundings. Whether I bring them on myself or not. With that said, I continue to pursue taking one thing at a time. I have an issue with something, I deal with it, right then and there. Either out loud or silently. I have learned that holding onto something or pushing it in the back creates more stress for myself and possibly those around me. I have been astounded at the results of dealing with what I have on my plate just one bite at a time. Which can also work for eating healthier...take small bites and chew slowly, savoring the flavor, etc. It's just finally sinking in how hard I am on myself and how much easier I could/can make it. It's only as stressful or intolerable as I make it. I can either freak out and stress for days or accept what is happening and deal with it in the moment; slowly and maturely. In the end, the result can only be good and if bad...it's just another lesson I've learned in life.
Lately, it has been not tolerating and not being able to control my surroundings. I have to accept that things won't go as planned or as I'd like them to go. Although my intentions are good and the purpose is not what people are seeing or accepting...it's not my fault and I need to learn to let it go.
If any resolutions are made by me, this would be at the top of my list. I've vowed to take one thing at a time a while back and have succeeded maybe 50% of the time and have seen awesome results because of it.
To the new year and to making life easier to tolerate.

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